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Processing the Unthinkable in Western North Carolina

It's incredibly hard to grasp the devastation unfolding in Western North Carolina right now. As I process the heartbreaking news, my thoughts drift to the people I care about—loved ones, former clients, friends, and coworkers who still live in the region. Having spent seven years living and working in places like Black Mountain, Hendersonville, Bryson City, and Sylva, these communities hold a deep significance in my life. I’ve traveled along I-40 countless times, and now I find myself anxiously reaching out to those who were such a meaningful part of my journey.

The fear of not hearing back is overwhelming. I can only hope that the worst isn't true. All this worry and uncertainty, while I’m in the comfort of my own home, makes the situation feel even more surreal. There's an overwhelming sense of helplessness as I try to process the magnitude of what's happening.

Focusing on What Can Be Done

When I face challenges that seem insurmountable—and lately, that seems to happen more often than I’d like—I try to focus on what I can control. I ask myself: What can I do in this moment? How can I channel my energy toward something helpful?

One thing I know I can do is share resources. Even from a distance, offering support is something I can actively pursue. While it may feel small compared to the scale of the disaster, it’s a way I can extend my care and concern.

Recognizing the Layers of Impact

My heart aches deeply for everyone affected by the flooding. However, I recognize that my grief pales in comparison to what those directly impacted are enduring. I’m not trying to center my experience in their suffering, but I hope my words may offer comfort to others who, like me, are struggling to process this unimaginable situation—whether they’re directly affected or, like me, worried for loved ones from afar.

It’s important to acknowledge that during any tragedy, there are different levels of impact.

  • Those directly affected: People who have lost their homes, are without power, or cannot travel safely. Their lives have been upended in ways that are hard to comprehend.

  • Those indirectly affected: Loved ones anxiously awaiting updates from the disaster zone or people inconvenienced by travel disruptions.

  • Broader emotional impact: People who may not have immediate ties to the area but feel a connection through past visits or future plans.

While it's natural to feel sadness or disappointment over canceled trips or memories of the region, the priority must always be supporting those most directly affected by the disaster.

Prioritizing Compassion and Support

Acknowledging these different layers of impact helps us navigate our emotions and interactions. While it’s okay to feel sad about personal disruptions, we must be mindful of the space we take up, especially around those who have lost so much. Prioritizing compassion is a meaningful way to show support.

So, how can we help?

  1. Share vital resources: Post information online to guide those in need.

  2. Donate: Contribute to disaster relief organizations like the Red Cross or local efforts.

  3. Support mental health services: Many organizations are working tirelessly to assist those in crisis.

Each of these actions counts, no matter how far we are from the epicenter of the tragedy. By amplifying the voices and needs of those who need it most, we can offer support in meaningful ways.

Ways to Help Western North Carolina Flood Victims

If you're looking for ways to contribute to the relief efforts following the flooding caused by Hurricane Helene in Western North Carolina, consider the following resources and organizations:

  • Red Cross Disaster Relief: Donate or volunteer to help provide emergency shelter, food, and assistance.

  • Salvation Army: Offers emergency services and support for displaced individuals.

  • Local Mental Health Services: Many local mental health organizations are offering counseling services for those affected.

For a full list of ways to help, visit BPR's guide on how to donate.

Resources for Those Affected by Flooding in Western North Carolina

If you’re in Western North Carolina and dealing with the aftermath of flooding, here are important tips and resources to help you stay safe:
List of Hurricane Helene Disaster Resources

Stay Alert

  • Enable emergency alerts on your phone and check local news or the National Weather Service for updates on conditions, evacuations, and road closures.

  • The state continues to monitor potential flash floods and landslides. Follow local officials’ advice.

Emergency Supplies & Shelters

  • Make sure you have an emergency kit with essentials like food, water, batteries, and first aid supplies.

  • If you need shelter, visit the ReadyNC website for local shelter locations.

Avoid Floodwaters

  • Never attempt to walk or drive through floodwaters; they can be deceptive and dangerous.

  • Follow all detours and road barricades.

Power Outages

  • If you're without power, use battery-powered lights instead of candles to reduce fire risk.

  • Preserve food by keeping refrigerators and freezers closed.

Help and Donations

  • Organizations like the Red Cross and Salvation Army are providing emergency relief.

  • If you or someone you know is missing, local authorities are performing welfare checks, particularly in the Asheville area, where the flood impacts are severe.

Federal Assistance

If your home or property was damaged, you may qualify for federal disaster relief. Apply through FEMA's disaster assistance website or call 1-800-621-3362. Assistance may include help with temporary housing, repairs, and recovery needs.

For more specific information on road closures and updates, visit:

Conclusion: Together, We Can Make a Difference

Whether you're directly affected or offering support from afar, we all have a role to play in helping Western North Carolina recover. From sharing resources to donating or simply offering kind words, every effort counts in the wake of this tragedy. To those affected, please know that you’re not alone as you navigate the steps toward recovery.

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